jueves, 28 de mayo de 2015

The nameless

I´ve already talk about the best experience that i´m gonna have with a friend, so now it´s time to talk about the worst experience i´ve ever had. I´m not gonna say his name because maybe it would be awkward, so let´s call him Forrest (because he used to love Forrest Gump). This story is quite long, therefore i´m just going to tell a summary, and believe me, you don't wanna know the things that i´m going to keep just for me.
This story maybe sounds a little stupid but when you have lived it, became kind of hard. It all began on sixth grade, we were classmates and, exactly, in September 14th of 2012 we started to talk, it was a Facebook conversation that still lives in my memory, and in all the screenshots that i took. Since that day we became friends, and with time we became the best, i remember that i used to cooked for him and we used to laugh about how bad i was in that (who would imagine how good i am now), we were so closed that we could tell us our darkest secrets. After that glorious time everything was in fall, my family, my other friends and our friendship.
On seventh grade Forrest and i were classmates, again, maybe it was karma. At this moment everything was worst because a new friend appeared, she, gradually, became my friend and at the same time his friend, in short he became her best friend. That happened because i was terribly hurt about everything that was happening on my home (it is still happening) and when i wasn´t there for him, she was. I saw how he laughed with her, like he used to do with me, how she gave him happy birthday presents, like i used to do, well it was kind of frustrating; but then when we were on 8th grade she wasn´t our classmate so we became closer, again. I know, i was a fool, again. That year was his metamorphosis, he became a bad guy, you know, rude, disrespectful, egocentric, and the worst part of all, he was awful with my best friend, and with me. He said that he had two "persons" in him, the one that was awful, rude and egocentric (the one that he showed at the school) and the old Forrest, the one that i´ve know since we were kids (he only showed this with me, and only on web). He hurt me a lot, he said terrible things about me,  he lied to me, and besides everything i was there for him always. But then i realized that he wasn´t Forrest, he wasn´t the one that used to laugh about everything, or used to do intelligent notes to class, now he is the only thing that i was afraid of, my weak point, that´s why he became the nameless.


"I think, I think when it’s all over it just comes back in flashes, you know. It’s like a kaleidoscope of memories, but it just all comes back. But he never does. I think part of me knew the second I saw him that this would happen. It’s not really anything he said, or anything he did, it was the feeling that came along with it. And, the crazy thing is, I don’t know if I am ever going to feel that way again, but I don’t know if I should. I knew his world moved too fast and burned too bright, but I just thought, how can the devil be pulling you towards someone who looks so much like an angel when he smiles at you? Maybe he knew that, when he saw me. I guess I just lost my balance. I think that the worst part of it all wasn’t losing him, it was losing me." Taylor swift-I knew you were trouble

miércoles, 27 de mayo de 2015

Bride Wars: Review

This movie is about two girls that have been friends since they were child, and since that day they have been planing their wedding. That two girls are Liv and Emma, totally different from each other, but you know what everyone say, opposite attract. Liv, a successful lawyer that always gets what she wants, perfect life, perfect boyfriend, perfect best friend (or not?). Emma, a school teacher that always thinks about the others but never thinks about herself. Now, at age of 26 they´re both about to get married, and they want it to be like they´ve always wished: in The Plaza on NY and, obviously, with her best friend. But, when a mistake causes a clash in wedding dates, that beautiful friendship become a terrible war, for being more specific a bride war.
I watched this movie for first time  a long time ago, but since that moment i watch it very often. I think that this movie is starring two great actresses, and the trama is brilliant. It has humor, romance and drama, what else do you want? As the film progresses you realized how a beautiful and stable friendship can have all of that hate between it, but also you can watch how, if it is a real friendship, you will always love and forgive each other, even if you don't want to, yo will always come back together, because that is friendship about, stay together. I really recommend this movie, it´s the kind of movie that you can watch on weekends and why not? with your best friend.
I give to this movie 4 wedding bouquets of 5 wedding bouquets.

“Sometimes in life there really are bonds formed that can never be broken. Sometimes you really can find that one person who will stand by you no matter what. Maybe you’ll find it with a spouse and celebrate it with your dream wedding. But there is also the chance that the one person you can count on for a lifetime, the person who knows you, sometimes better than you know yourself, is the same person who has been standing beside you all along.” Bride wars


You are my light.

When we were kids we just worried about getting the super incredible new toy, or not to break your mom´s vase; but as we grow we realize  this world, and specially this century, is really frightening. I think  the worst part of adolescence isn´t about hormonal changes, or getting a boyfriend or girlfriend, is about been through all the darkness that this world contains, about knowing that you´re alone and that your parents aren´t going to be there forever, and that´s why we got friends to hold on and don´t give up, to have a little light between all the darkness.

Some people like to have a lot of friends, maybe they feel comfortable knowing that they aren´t alone, but some others, myself included, prefer to have two or three friends but, you know, real friends. The kind of friend that, as i said before, is a light in your life. The kind of friendship that surpassed all, that motivate you and make you happy. It´s so important to cultivate friendship and fraternity because they are our rest of so many bad things, nothing is better to unwind that go out with your best friends and laugh about everything, because there is nothing that can not be fixed with songs of Taylor Swift, some chocolate cake, and, obviously, a good friend.


"And the tears come streaming down your face, when you lose something you can't replace, when you love someone but it goes to waste. Could it be worse? Lights will guide you home, and ignite your bones, and i will try to fix you" Coldplay-Fix you

"We can be heroes just for one day"

The best experience i´ve ever had with a friend  could be a lot of things, when we bought all the christmas presents together, or maybe when we went to watch a movie, and we really didn´t watched the movie because we were laughing since the beginning to the credits. It could be when we reconciled of our first fight, or just every single minute that i´ve spent with her; but i think that the best experience with my best friend  hasn´t happen yet, the best experience that i´m gonna have with Daniela it´s going to happen in, exactly, 14 days, and is an incredible trip that we are going to have together.

We are going to travel to Europe, and we are going with my mom and my sister (i´ve not seen her since september 18th) so it´s going to be perfect. There is going to be the three persons who i like the most, and we are going to be doing one of my favorite things. We are going to walk trough all the monuments and buildings full of history, we are going to be sunbathing, looking to the sea, the same sea that millions of years ago Homero saw, in short we are going to be on paradise.


"We can be heroes,  just for one day. We can be us,  just for one day." David bowie-Heroes

viernes, 15 de mayo de 2015

Memories

My best friend is called Daniela Esteban. The story of how we met is weird, we´ve been studying in the same school for nine years but only has been two years since we began to be friends. I met her when her childhood friend became my best friend, obviously she didn´t like me, but i think that i liked her. After that awkward meeting, we never talk again until seventh grade when her friends became my friends therefore we became friends. In that year i became seriously ill and i realize that my friends weren´t real friends and that the only one that really was there for my was Daniela. After that we went away from our "friends" and  gradually we realized that we have a lot in common. That is one of the many reasons why i love her and why she is my best friend, because she was there when no one else were, and she still is. Also because she is the most authentic and spontaneous person i´ve ever met, she is funny and she doesn´t care about what people think about her or the problems that haunts everyone, she has the solution for everything and is the only person who keeps my feet on the ground and makes me realize that everything is easier than i though. She has been my best friend since one year and a half ago and i would like she to be my best friend forever. 

"It was always you, no more guessing who, looking back now, i know it was always you, always you." Maroon 5-It was always you